[an error occurred while processing this directive]

Home

dating Directory


More
dating Articles

WRITERS WANTED! (click-me)

Feature Article:

Top 5 Online Dating Mistakes Made By Men!
The Five Killer Mistakes Men Make With Online Dating! By Mick Jones-Author of How To meet Women on the Internet. Here are the top five mistakes and how to avoid them with dating women online! Mistake#1. Having a Boring, Average Profile!...

The Misconception about Online Dating
So you've just joined an online dating site. You hurriedly, and half-heartedly fill out a profile with no picture, and then wait to be contacted. Several weeks go by, nothing. Now you are beginning to feel discouraged. Maybe people aren't as...

[an error occurred while processing this directive]

To Stay Married, Start Dating

[an error occurred while processing this directive]       Navigation

One of my favorite memories from last year was not watching my young daughters rip into their Christmas presents, or seeing them perform in the school talent show. No, my happiest recollection was the date my husband and I went out on one stormy Tuesday night in November.

A few days before, we’d had our fill of running the girls to swimming lessons and fighting with them to do their homework. We could not endure the sight of one more PTA notice requesting money for this fundraiser or attendance at that meeting. We broke. We called a sitter and reserved a table at the most elegant restaurant in town.

And what a night it was. The sitter was late, of course, and the wind was snapping off tree branches and hurling them at our car, but we made it. The food, the wine, and the service were fine. We put the children firmly out of our minds. By the time the salad came, we were sufficiently unwound.

We started having fun. We were laughing. The subjects of the weird charge on our cell phone bill or our dire need for a new refrigerator never entered the discussion. We were transformed into the couple we used to be before children, two cars, and a mortgage. We were footloose, fancy free, and out for a good time.

The happiness of that evening stayed with us for many days. We were attentive to one another. We remembered why we’d gotten married and were glad for it, proving my mother’s advice that happy couples continue to date each other forever.

“It’s important,” she’d say.

But, in the early years of our marriage, I’d make excuses. Diaper and formula bills left little money for nights out on the town. It was impossible to find a good babysitter. It was selfish of us to take time away from the children.

“Make it a priority,” my mother would respond. “Children are the result of the marriage, not the reason for it.”

Like a lot of couples, my husband and I had forgotten that. We’d completely wrapped ourselves up in our children and their needs. We started losing sight of each other, but we knew that if we didn’t make time for our relationship, our children would grow up and we’d be left behind, looking at each other and wondering, “Who the heck is this person?”

So we decided to make it a goal to go out on a date once a month (once a week is better, according to my mother), and I heartily recommend you do the same. If your husband is reluctant, don’t guilt trip him into “taking” you out. You’re not luggage. Instead, remind him that you love him, and tell him that you miss having him to yourself. That should convince him.

I’m not going to pretend it’s ever easy to squeeze a date onto a calendar of never-ending responsibilities. It isn’t. My husband and I had dinner plans tonight, but we had to cancel due to an event at our daughters’ school. It's disappointing, but it won’t deter us. We’ll just reschedule our night out for next week.

We've made it a priority because, as my mother counseled, our happy marriage depends on it.


About the Author

Terry Hernon MacDonald has been happily married for 12 years and writes frequently about dating and relationships. She is the author of the ebook HOW TO ATTRACT AND MARRY THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS. For more information, please visit http//www.marrysmart.com.

[an error occurred while processing this directive]

More Reading:


How to Conquer Intimidating Goals

Personals Online Dating Sites and Services

Dating chat up lines for men

How To Find A Dating Web Site That Is Right For You Today Starting From Scratch

5 Steps To Success In Speed Dating

 
Date Girls Dating Women

Who Says Online Datings Only For Losers

Tips To Secure Your Online Dating Safety

Sound Seduction Advice for Dating and Romance Success

Dating Really Talking with Your Mate

dating Home

dating Directory

Additional Reading


Virtual Dating - A Safe Way Of Checking Out Potential Romance
The personals ads in the local newspaper are getting old, and online dating services have applications that are long and ask a lot of questions. Do you often wonder how many phone connections you'll have to go through before you meet the person of...

Creating the Perfect Online Dating Personal Ad
Millions of people are online everyday trying to meet someone new. For some they are just trying to make new friends, others are looking for romance and others are seeking their soulmates. But how many of them are killing their chances by making...

Dating: The Bitter Truth
I don’t know about you, but when someone says to me, “I’m going to be brutally frank with you,” I usually say, “No, you’re not,” and walk away. It’s a common misconception that telling someone your version of “the truth” is helpful to them, and...



 

 

Internet Search for: dating, we

[an error occurred while processing this directive]

[an error occurred while processing this directive]

 

Copyright   [an error occurred while processing this directive]