Getting What You Want By Asking Nicely
It is a common fact, if you ask nicely and it is in reason, you
will probably get what you want. Then why do we sometimes get
angry and over emotional and ask our partner nastily for
something. Do we expect that your partner will automatically
give in?
The way we talk to our partners is extremely important and will
determine not only how we are treated but we also get in return.
It is far easier to ask for something nicely then to ask
disgruntled. The best way to get what you want is to kill the
person with niceness. There will be times when your partner has
had a bad day at work and they don't want to be bothered. You
might ask them to take you to a shop or the cinema and they may
respond rudely.
If this is not a frequent occurrence, than it is important to
talk to your partner to see what the problem may be. A
possibility is that they just need to let off some steam and
unfortunately you walked in the middle of their path. If you
find that this is a common occurrence and that every time you
ask nicely they flat out say no, then you should reevaluate your
request. If your request is reasonable, then you should
reevaluate your relationship. If you love doing certain things
and need help by your partner, your partner should acquiesce
some of the times. You can't get your way all the time, but if
you ask nicely and your request is reasonable you should have a
high chance of success.
About the author:
Jay is the web owner of http://www.singles-in.com Online Singles, a website
that provides information and resources on personals, dating,
and singles. You can visit his website at:
http://www.personals-in.com Online Personals
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