|The concept of finding Asian girls as life partners with the help of the Internet is a fairly recent concept when compared with the history of man kind as such. Of course the internet and computers have influenced manīs life so much that it is no surprise that in the matters of finding a suitable partner too, the Internet has made its presence felt. |
Online dating is, to put is very simply or flatly, finding a partner with the help of a machine namely the computer via the Internet. That itself makes the idea and the process a very novel one indeed, Thousands of Asian girls have been successful in finding suitable partners by the means of Online dating.
Everything that applies to the Internet, applies to Online dating as well. The Internet as we know allows for unlimited possibilities in communication, and it is this feature that has proved to be at the same time the biggest boon, as well as bane for Online dating.
People can start from scratch and get to know everything about each other before the actual meeting takes place. Tastes and preferences, likes and dislikes, interests and obsessions can be discussed on a one to one basis so that when the meeting actually takes place these two people are not in the least strangers to each other. Wonderful, isnīt it?
But at the same time this possibility for unlimited communication leaves a lot of space for guile as well. The human race is endowed with a remarkable ability to use, misuse and abuse the same thing. And naturally,Asian Online dating too has been and is still being used for vile purposes.
An Asian girl who is misusing this facility may either be a practical joker or may be someone with more devious intentions who is out to get some victims. It is because of this reason that a little bit of home work is good before you actually hit the road.
The first tip I would like to give you is NOT to go straight away into a Asian singlesī chat room and try to find Asian girls who would interest you. All of us know that most of such chat rooms are virtually flooded with Asian girls who have only one thing on their mind - sex. So, no matter what you ask for, it always ends up in that and the purpose is defeated. You will never get an Asian girl who kind of matches your interests and tastes.
You have to be on your guard all the time and keep constantly reminding your self that the Asian girl you are chatting with is, after all a stranger and a goodness-knows-what. The best thing that you could do is avoid instant intimacy altogether.
It doesnīt really matter if the Asian girl finds you cold or reserved, you can easily solve that by telling the girl that it takes sometime for you to become comfortable with a person. That in fact is a good quality because it is as good as saying, "Well, Iīm sorry Iīm not the loose kind who plays around.'
4 Ways To Tell If an Asian girl Is Lying
As discussed earlier, we are not going to resort to Asian singlesī chat rooms dedicated specifically to Asian online dating. Instead we will be in chat rooms of specific interest. So one very effective way of finding out if an Asian girl is lying would be to ask the girl very pointed questions about the area of interest. If the Asian girl fumbles or gives vague answers then you do not have to waste your time on such a person.
Another thing that you could do is that from the moment you first make contact with Asian girls, jot down whatever details the Asian girls chooses to reveal to you and in subsequent encounters nonchalantly question the Asian girls about the details, if there is a contradiction in the two details then you can be as sure as pat that the girl is lying.
Ask the Asian girls seemingly general questions but which in fact should have a very definite purpose, for example ask the Asian girls what she is looking for in such a relationship. Note down the answer. After two or three encounters again repeat the question and see whether the two answers match.
You could try pretending that you have chatted with the Asian girl before and innocently ask the girl if she is such and such person (make something up) and try offering compliments to the Asian girl like, "I really enjoyed chatting with you the other day. You were perfectly charming...' and so on. If the girl falls for cheap flattery like this, then obviously she makes it a hobby to chat with people under various identities.
And so the chatting goes on until the Asian girl really grows on you. When you feel that you can really trust the girl, you may try giving the girl your telephone number. Remember that this too is a giant leap towards building a relationship so itīs better that you be sure than sorry.
The safest thing you can do about telephone numbers is to mutually exchange it preferably at the same time, so that neither party is at a disadvantage. Itīs really no big deal, you can afford to tell the Asian girl that you are just being wary, the girl will understand. If she does not, then there is a good chance that she will not understand a lot of other things as well. In that case, dump the girl.
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